Category Archives: Uncategorized

How to Supercharge your Social Life by Tweaking One Tiny Aspect of your Personality

Essen Consulting

How to Supercharge your Social Life by Tweaking One Tiny Aspect of your Personality

build your social life

Have you ever wondered how some people can confidently stroll into any room, approach the first person they see, and quickly jump into deep conversations?

They’re able to laugh, engage, and have fun.  They ooze confidence and charisma. Other people are dying to meet them and hanging on their every word.

As an introvert, I’ve always been deeply fascinated by those individuals—the ones who can talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere—because that’s something I struggled with for most of my life.

In fact, for many years, most conversations I tried to start would go something like this:

Me: “Hi! How are you?”

Them: “Good. You?”

Me: “Good!…[awkward silence]…Well, it was nice seeing you…”

Then, the conversation would fizzle out, and I’d scurry away tail-between-my-legs discouraged.

But rather than just giving up and saying I’m not a “people person,” I decided to study some of the best conversationalists around.

And no, I…

View original post 1,040 more words


7 Tips for Merging ‘Mindfulness’ Into the Workplace

Jade the Mystic


Plan for 30 minutes a week and let co-workers know you’ll be off the grid. Whether you use this time to get away to a more relaxed space or simply shut down the computer and close the office door is up to you.


participating as a group means you can sit quietly, laugh and discuss your insights together like what we do in this writing community.


Instead of immediately reacting by giving up or judging yourself for not reaching enlightenment, take a moment to just notice those thoughts. Tell yourself, “this is what impatience feels like.” Then return to your breath. Settling into a place within yourself that isn’t trying to become accomplished is one of the quickest ways of establishing your practice.


There are plenty of teachers who publish audio tracks at varying lengths but remember silence is the best teacher for meditation.


Close your eyes, and count 10…

View original post 67 more words

10 Really Simple Ways to Make 2015 Amazing Without Making a Single Resolution


I’ve always really loved New Year’s.

In Russia it’s a big family holiday that we used to celebrate with a huge, long, multi-course, late-into-the-night family meal, a New Year’s tree, presents, and even a visit from Ded Moroz. It wasn’t a religious holiday but the New Year’s tree was very similar to a Christmas tree and Ded Moroz was very similar to Santa Claus, although to get your presents you had to sing or dance or recite a poem. (My dad often made some extra money by working as Ded Moroz for a few families:). We still celebrate this way in America and I love it.

The other thing I love about New Year’s is a chance to think about the year ahead and some things I’d like to experience. Kiddo and I got into the habit of making an annual vision board about some of the things we want…

View original post 966 more words

Wednesday Inspiration 12.17.14

Such an aspiring girl


I found myself a little discouraged the other day after a conversation with a friend. Long story short my friend confirmed in somewhat of an indirect way that someone I already suspected wasn’t a fan of me in fact doesn’t like me. Now I know we’re not always going to be someone’s cup of tea, and I don’t expect to please everyone. Sometimes without meaning to, you just rub people the wrong way. I remember Robert Ferguson saying something a few weeks ago about how Kane, one of our pastors, rubs him the wrong way because Kane is so much more jovial than him. So as you can see, that’s kind of silly, right? It’s not like Kane said something mean to Robert, or did anything serious to offend him. Sometimes people just don’t gravitate to you, and that’s okay. We all have different personalities and interests and sometimes they clash.

View original post 934 more words

5 Positively Transformative Reasons to Write a Journal

*Positive Provocations*

5 Positively Transformative Reasons to Write a Journal“Life is a train of moods like a string of beads; and as we pass through them they prove to be many colored lenses, which paint the world their own hue, and each shows us only what lies in its own focus.”~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

As this glorious December begins and we are all in introspective modes cause of the end of the year approaching rapidly…I’m thinking about Essence. I’m thinking about that Essence that is revealed when we have found or touched Depth. You know what I mean…I’m talking about that amazing calm, glowy, light, airy feeling we get when we see those who are already Spiritually evolved. That certain essence is present in each and every one of us. After-all, we Are Beings of Light first. This body is just a vessel for that being of light.

So, How can we reveal our True Essence? The…

View original post 1,040 more words